I hope that my all Maheshwari brothers and sisters have gone through my last post regarding 100 Commandments for Personal Excellence.

Today I have updated the 2nd Part of my book. Please go through and kindly let me know via comments, whether you find it viable or not.

11. Share your worries, stress, adventure and achievements with the people you rely upon. It will give you the feelings of amity, trust and will make you nearer to them further more. Moreover they will feel themselves important to you.

12. Be yourself be whatever you are, never disguise – sheep in the wolf skin. It gives you nothing but a fake identity with the flimsy portfolio. Being yourself is reality that’s truth and truth is never timid.

13. Anger leads to insanity and insanity is demolition of your persona. To control your anger share it with someone, be calm before you are going to abrupt on someone and realize the both sides mistakes.

14. Write, Write and Write. Try to get sometimes before you sleep and write about your day you spent, good, bad, learning, lost, everything, that is not only going to improve your writing but also you will experience of your daily Ifs and Buts.

15. Word “We” is better than “I”. When you are working with group of people or friends or acquaintances, don’t forget to use “We” instead of “I”. I leads you alone and “WE” leads your entire group. “We” creates the aura of TEAM and “Is” create the atmosphere of Proud.

16. DO NOT KEEP THE COMPANY OF AN EVIL PERSON, FOR SURELY YOUR CHARACTER WILL TAKE ON SOMETHING OF HIS CHARACTER WITHOUT YOUR EVEN REALIZING IT. (HAZARAT ALI – A.S.). Useless to explain furthermore about this saying by Hazarat Ali.

17. While interacting with someone, try to avoid such topic i.e. politics, religion, ethnics, gender issues, marital life problems, exs’ conflicts, etc. These pester people and cause them stress, they won’t take any interest in you any longer.

18. Meet the people with their tastes, everyone has different emotions, spirit, feelings, tone, mood, etc. etc. You can’t meet to your serious boss with the caprice and humorous gestures or you can’t meet a spiritual person with the tone of adversity. Life is a zigzag road. All we have to do is – to walk along with the road or we will stunned down.

19. Introduce yourself with a brief summary: Most of the people introduce themselves with merely uttering their names. Always mentioned some more e.g. “Hi, I am John Whitman, I am working for Ace Dickinson’s as a Project Director”. It creates the links of furthermore relationships among a group of people, at a party, convention or seminar etc. etc.

20. Don’t bottle neck your problems, share them with your confidants. Definitely you will get a solution you are seeking out alone. Sharing is a great habit it puts you in the profound hearts of people.

Continued……

The inauguration ceremony was on Saturday 6^th December, 2010 at 7:00 pm at MEI Auditorium, Lee Market, Karachi , where number of people from Maheshwari Community came over and attended the ceremony. MESAF was introduced by its President – Mr.Jay Kumar Maheshwari in details and later General Secretary – Mr.Ashok Kumar Seejuwani furthered the program , in last session the questions/answers session was held to gather the public opinion about the Forum, the MESAF hand bills were also distributed for the public knowledge and later it ended on a light refreshment session.

1. The 1^st MESAF lecture was held on Saturday 12^th December, 2009  at 10:00 pm at MEI Auditorium, Lee Market, Karachi. The Topic was “Prophecies: The Hidden Future by Shri Mamai Dev”. The Lecturer was our renowned and famous Giyani Mr.Vijay Kumar Danicha, who does not need any introduction for his well-groomed personality and knowledge and command on Maheshpanth and other religious matters.  The topic was really eye-opening hearing the prophecies Shree Mamaidev forecast for future and Ghat(Maheshwari Samaj). The audience enjoyed the prophecies narrated by Mr.Vijay Kumar.
2. The 2^nd MESAF lecture was held on Sunday  3^rd January, 2010, at 4:00 pm at MEI Auditorium, Lee Market, Karachi. The Topic was “ Theater Play Writing & Acting Tips”. The Lecturer was Mr.Kishore Asmal Amna – a young  and energetic , talented boy who has vast knowledge of the subject. Mr.Kishore has also directed 1 Play and 1 Documentary Movie on the construction of Mamai Dev  Yatra Aasthan.

Name of the forum:

It has been decided that the name of the forum shall be kept “ Maheshwari Educational & Social Awareness Forum (MESAF)”.

Why is the need of a Forum?

There is a strong need for taking some of special and necessary initiatives on our present national and social situation in the picture of the globe. Maheshwari community has been deprived from the awareness of social norms like public awareness, ethics, social ethos, religious discrimination, parental guidance, importance of education, gender discrimination, the role of a woman in our society, duties of a Maheshwari, etc. etc.

The Forum shall make the community members (both males and females)  aware of the misguided and blurred visions of social norms and wither away the dust of illiteracy and unawareness.

Membership:

Every male/female person belonging to  Maheshwari Community can be member of the Forum, following the rules and regulation laid by the forum management.

Supreme Authority:

The forum shall run under the supervision of the Education Committee of Cutchi Maheshwari Meghwar Panchayat (Karachi).

Founder Members:

1. Jay Kumar Maheshwary
2. Shayam Soomar Patariya
3. Vijay Thawer Fufal
4. Vasant Maheshwary
5. Lachman Devjee Dhera
6. Ashok Kumar Seejuwani
7. Kishore Asmal Amna
8. Sandeep Mohanlal Divriya
9. Anand Mangliya
10. Kailash Dhera
11. Ravi Kumar Kannar