22.     Prompt “Thank You” is much better than 2 days later 1 page letter. Good work should always be rewarded by a prompt Thank You. There is no good worth to write back some days later a complete detailed page for appreciation.

23.     Give love and take love. When interact to your juniors or seniors, be polite, smile and treat gently with them. We normally don’t treat well infact sometimes misbehave with our transporters, cab drivers, shopkeepers, etc. etc. We buy products but on long term basis we are making relationship with a sincere and profit giver shopkeeper, what if we cheats on us next time when you do shopping with him, as first we misbehaved with him.

24.     Personality should be like cell phone modals, every now and then new change, new look, new addition, new facilities, etc. etc.  We need to garnish our personality day to day, inducting in smile, challenges, goals, communication skills, positive mental attitude, laughter and happiness.

25.     Stop blaming others in the bad times, but doing the SWOT Analysis. Good and Bad times are the part of our lives, and Bad Time is never forever. It certainly ends, if you want to make it end. Always follow the SWOT Analysis rule. Know your Strength, know your Weakness, identify the Opportunities and be aware of the Threats.

Goals are the fuel in the furnace of achievement.
Brian Tracy

26.     Set your small goals for at least 4 to 6 months time period. Setting Goals shall make you feel serious about your progress and development, it shall realize you to move further from where you are already standing. Small goals for small time period shall encourage you, when your small goals will be achieved the more energy and spirit will ooze out of your emotions and it will make you ready for big goals.

27.     Plan your next day on a piece of paper before you sleep, it helps you to manage the things you forget in your daily hustle and bustle routine life. Keeping things written always assists you clearing your tasks/jobs rather than remorsing on undone.

28.     Motivation is the cardinal source to upkeep your moral of working and approaching towards your goals at par excellence. Try to know what motivates you music, reading, meeting friends, exercise, watching movie, etc, and then apply them on yourself. It really works. This is best way to motivate yourself first from within yourself.

29.     Read everyday at least 2 paragraphs of  any newspaper, newsletter, magazine, good book, report or right-up. Reading increases your knowledge, jargon and updates you with the rest of world. Books are the best friends. They give you more than they take from you (just price).

30. Do something extraordinary every year and it will set the benchmark for others. Writing books, doing workshops, seminars, free classes or other honorary services for the people who are needy for. Doing these you are not only increasing your knowledge, personal relationship and  reputation but also making a place in the hearts of the people.

I am very happy to let my all Maheshwari Brothers and Sisters in India that our MESAF has been going through a tremendous boost ups by very erudite and knowledgeable luminaries. MESAF has so far arranged 11 lectures on various fields of life viz Religion, Yoga and Acupuncture, Media, Medical Science, Personal Management Science and International Relegations, etc. etc.

We at MESAF, Karachi also are looking forward to holding  a couple of online  lectures  for public awareness from our Indian preferably our Maheshwari intellectuals.

I hope that my Maheshwari brothers will step forward and broaden our vistas.

Thanks & Regards,

Jai Dhani Matang

Ashok Kumar Seejuwani

I hope that my all Maheshwari brothers and sisters have gone through my last post regarding 100 Commandments for Personal Excellence.

Today I have updated the 2nd Part of my book. Please go through and kindly let me know via comments, whether you find it viable or not.

11. Share your worries, stress, adventure and achievements with the people you rely upon. It will give you the feelings of amity, trust and will make you nearer to them further more. Moreover they will feel themselves important to you.

12. Be yourself be whatever you are, never disguise – sheep in the wolf skin. It gives you nothing but a fake identity with the flimsy portfolio. Being yourself is reality that’s truth and truth is never timid.

13. Anger leads to insanity and insanity is demolition of your persona. To control your anger share it with someone, be calm before you are going to abrupt on someone and realize the both sides mistakes.

14. Write, Write and Write. Try to get sometimes before you sleep and write about your day you spent, good, bad, learning, lost, everything, that is not only going to improve your writing but also you will experience of your daily Ifs and Buts.

15. Word “We” is better than “I”. When you are working with group of people or friends or acquaintances, don’t forget to use “We” instead of “I”. I leads you alone and “WE” leads your entire group. “We” creates the aura of TEAM and “Is” create the atmosphere of Proud.

16. DO NOT KEEP THE COMPANY OF AN EVIL PERSON, FOR SURELY YOUR CHARACTER WILL TAKE ON SOMETHING OF HIS CHARACTER WITHOUT YOUR EVEN REALIZING IT. (HAZARAT ALI – A.S.). Useless to explain furthermore about this saying by Hazarat Ali.

17. While interacting with someone, try to avoid such topic i.e. politics, religion, ethnics, gender issues, marital life problems, exs’ conflicts, etc. These pester people and cause them stress, they won’t take any interest in you any longer.

18. Meet the people with their tastes, everyone has different emotions, spirit, feelings, tone, mood, etc. etc. You can’t meet to your serious boss with the caprice and humorous gestures or you can’t meet a spiritual person with the tone of adversity. Life is a zigzag road. All we have to do is – to walk along with the road or we will stunned down.

19. Introduce yourself with a brief summary: Most of the people introduce themselves with merely uttering their names. Always mentioned some more e.g. “Hi, I am John Whitman, I am working for Ace Dickinson’s as a Project Director”. It creates the links of furthermore relationships among a group of people, at a party, convention or seminar etc. etc.

20. Don’t bottle neck your problems, share them with your confidants. Definitely you will get a solution you are seeking out alone. Sharing is a great habit it puts you in the profound hearts of people.

Continued……

The inauguration ceremony was on Saturday 6^th December, 2010 at 7:00 pm at MEI Auditorium, Lee Market, Karachi , where number of people from Maheshwari Community came over and attended the ceremony. MESAF was introduced by its President – Mr.Jay Kumar Maheshwari in details and later General Secretary – Mr.Ashok Kumar Seejuwani furthered the program , in last session the questions/answers session was held to gather the public opinion about the Forum, the MESAF hand bills were also distributed for the public knowledge and later it ended on a light refreshment session.

1. The 1^st MESAF lecture was held on Saturday 12^th December, 2009  at 10:00 pm at MEI Auditorium, Lee Market, Karachi. The Topic was “Prophecies: The Hidden Future by Shri Mamai Dev”. The Lecturer was our renowned and famous Giyani Mr.Vijay Kumar Danicha, who does not need any introduction for his well-groomed personality and knowledge and command on Maheshpanth and other religious matters.  The topic was really eye-opening hearing the prophecies Shree Mamaidev forecast for future and Ghat(Maheshwari Samaj). The audience enjoyed the prophecies narrated by Mr.Vijay Kumar.
2. The 2^nd MESAF lecture was held on Sunday  3^rd January, 2010, at 4:00 pm at MEI Auditorium, Lee Market, Karachi. The Topic was “ Theater Play Writing & Acting Tips”. The Lecturer was Mr.Kishore Asmal Amna – a young  and energetic , talented boy who has vast knowledge of the subject. Mr.Kishore has also directed 1 Play and 1 Documentary Movie on the construction of Mamai Dev  Yatra Aasthan.

Before I ask you all to hit the topic, would like to tell some of my background as a Personality Developing Trainer. I am the CEO of a firm namely The Innovators which arranges the day in day out workshops/seminars for corporate sectors, schools, colleges, officials and teachers to groom up their personal enhancement skills. The firms employs 6 people all together and running successfully since 2006 by the grace of Matangdev.

In August 2007, I wrote a book namely “100 commandments for personal excellence” which got lots of fame as a good training guide and personality shaping tonic.

I understand that I should give some of the tips/techniques from my book which will guarantee your personality enhancement.

Our persona gets rusty and dusty in our violated and societal polluted culture as the world orbits around. The cultural ethos sometimes ejects the personality clusters and we adapt them so quickly not knowing one day that would shed negative mental attitude.

So, lets enjoy the personality building tonic….

1.The first thing which glooms and shines up your personality is SMILE. Keeping smile on your face keeps the people you interact with warm, happy and friendly.

2.Meet every year at least 100 new people and put them in your friendship clientele, customers, students’ circle. It increases your personal relationship and helps in your personal projection.

3.Try to get the membership of a friendship/business clubs, any educational institution or organization to get yourself socialized with. Pay your visit to such clubs or organizations at least once or twice in a month as to increase your knowledge and PR ship.

4.Never speak negative about your competitors, your rivals or the people you hate, in front of your clients or the persons you don’t know personally or meeting them first time. It generates negative impact on their minds.

5.Meet the people with firm handshake, smile on your face and call them by their names. The person you meet, feels good when you call his/her name. It shows that you remember them.

6.Well said that smile and the world will smile with you, cry and no one cries with you, then why don’t we smile and win the hearts of people around us. Scientifically it is proved that it takes 17 muscles of your face to smile and 43 to frown then  J please.

7.One SMS can make some one smile and can reduce the stress of someone sad. On special occasions, festivals and events of achievement and happiness, send your friends and relatives SMS. They shall keep you in their good books.

8.Give respect and have respect – We believe the phenomena of give and take in every walk of life. The best way to get respect is to give people respect who are senior, wise and are more respectful people.

9.Be polite to them who frown at you; this is the best way to defeat your enemy or rival. Disputes and mouth lashing can harm your esteem and will end up with no difference between you and your foul-mouthed rival.

10.Listen the people with keen interest, because the more good you listen, the best way you can respond them in. This creates an amicable aura among you and results in an enormous relationship between you and the person you communicate with.

Ashok Kumar Seejuwani

To be continued…..

Name of the forum:

It has been decided that the name of the forum shall be kept “ Maheshwari Educational & Social Awareness Forum (MESAF)”.

Why is the need of a Forum?

There is a strong need for taking some of special and necessary initiatives on our present national and social situation in the picture of the globe. Maheshwari community has been deprived from the awareness of social norms like public awareness, ethics, social ethos, religious discrimination, parental guidance, importance of education, gender discrimination, the role of a woman in our society, duties of a Maheshwari, etc. etc.

The Forum shall make the community members (both males and females)  aware of the misguided and blurred visions of social norms and wither away the dust of illiteracy and unawareness.

Membership:

Every male/female person belonging to  Maheshwari Community can be member of the Forum, following the rules and regulation laid by the forum management.

Supreme Authority:

The forum shall run under the supervision of the Education Committee of Cutchi Maheshwari Meghwar Panchayat (Karachi).

Founder Members:

1. Jay Kumar Maheshwary
2. Shayam Soomar Patariya
3. Vijay Thawer Fufal
4. Vasant Maheshwary
5. Lachman Devjee Dhera
6. Ashok Kumar Seejuwani
7. Kishore Asmal Amna
8. Sandeep Mohanlal Divriya
9. Anand Mangliya
10. Kailash Dhera
11. Ravi Kumar Kannar